Wednesday, January 28, 2009

Life Changes

So my mom says I need to do more blogging, because I always tell her the random things the kids do, but never get it written down. I've already forgotten all but one of the stories I was supposed to blog about. I guess I'll just share the one.

A couple weeks ago Gabriel and I were cuddling on the couch, he needed to chill out before Mommy was committed. He was holding his "baby" aka a little blue elephant he hauls everywhere and his "sister" aka the little lion with a mane he got for his last birthday. His "sister" was introduced to the family when he finally accepted that #3 was in fact going to be a boy. We were sitting there and he looked up at me so seriously and said, "Mommy my sister needs to nurse." I told him to go ahead and nurse her. He looked back at me pretty indignantly and said, "I'm a boy, yooouuu have to nurse her." So he held her up to my shirt (yes she can nurse through clothes) for a good 20 minutes before she got full. Funny boy he hasn't seen me nurse for nearly 2 years now, but it must have made quite an impression on him.

About that #3...I'm now at 35 weeks. That means in two weeks I'll begin my labor dance. We have NO name. We're lousy namers and have given up on even trying to talk about names before we can see what they look like. My brother and sister-in-law call him Baby 'G'. I really, really want to avoid another 'G' name, but I thought baby 'G' was super cute. This has been a crazy painful pregnancy; my hips and legs and well everything have hurt the whole time. Movement is really more than I can make myself do most of the time. According to the old wives tale, with the amount of heartburn I've had lately this kid better have a TON of hair when he's born. I've been sick for most of it, there were a very few weeks in the middle that I wasn't puking or about to puke. That just gets annoying and makes me cranky. Yeah nausea cranky on top of two destructo machines, on top of I can't bend over or eat more than 2 bites, on top of I'm still trying to get settled into the house we moved into almost 7 years ago, not such a good combo.

I have to give a little brag time to Stephen, I am the luckiest wife ever. He's willing to help with kids and housework, and even go shopping. He now has an extensive collection of pictures of me sleeping in random places. I guess as long as he doesn't wake me up he can take all the pictures he wants. He was even able to keep the kids quiet enough one day to let me sleep till 10 am. This was quite a feat because the only time the boys are quiet is when they are sick. I was happy to see that I still have the ability to sleep that long. Sometimes I get so excited to think that some day they'll be teenagers and we can all sleep in all morning. :-D

Lastly, the big 3-0 hit this week. It was a little hard. It's one thing to feel old, but still be able to say you're in your 20's; but now I just feel old... Next year I'll be that old lady standing in the hall at school to pick up my kindergartner. What a strange new stage of life I'm entering. We had a family dinner at my mom's house. Gabriel and Garrett helped Papa wrap my gift. They were sooo excited about my surprise that they got to help Papa with. I was excited to open it and see that it was some more of the shelfreliance can rotators. Costco had them for cheaper than buying online. Woo-hoo!! When we got home that night I found a yummy surprise waiting for me at the door from a sweet friend. Stephen saw it and said, "Ahhhh, look somebody likes you." He's such a romantic. What a fun surprise! Gabriel thought it was "so cool dude". We're not sure where he picked up dude from, but he uses it in his sentences correctly so we'll just let it go.

9 comments:

Katrina said...

You are not old!! I know what you mean though. I will be 34 this year. I can't believe it!! It is different when your able to say your still in your twenties. I am excited to find out the name you choose for your little one!!!

Dunklees said...

Happy Birthday! And you're not old until you have the missionaries for dinner and they tell you that you remind them of their mother!

Sharron said...

Mariah doesn't get the rest of her birthday for awhile. Some things just take longer, for one reason or another. and she wouldn't know what to do with a birthday that ended on her birthday!

Hey Stephanie, it only gets better ... their weird gandmas!

Alison said...

You are so not old Mariah. Seriously! 30 is nothing. Be proud of it. You have earned every year, especially since those boys of your were born. :)

Linda said...

Happy Birthday Mariah! Turning 30 has been the most traumatic age change for me--so it only gets better! I'm sorry this pregnancy has been such a bummer, must mean he is going to be a sweetheart. Good Luck and let me know what I can do to ease your burden, except for labor and delivery!

Liz said...

SO glad to read a blog update I was wondering about you. Crystal's third pregnancy was really tough on her too and come to think of it so has the boy! He is a handful that little Trey. Hope yours is sweet and cuddly. Will keep you in our thoughts and prayers and wish you a happy and safe delivery. Now thirty is VERY young trust me. I'm almost fifty and was thinking about how old I was getting then I got a new sister to visit teach and she is in her 80's. After listening to her tell us everything she goes through just to clean her shower I realized I'm really not that old. So I need to just cherish my abilities and not waste them. Any way keep BLOGGING and take some photos of those little guys I don't get to see them very often. LOVE you kiddo and good luck.

momma street said...

Mariah - I was missing you! Glad you posted again!! Sorry the pregnancy is so yucky! Atleast you know it will come to an end. If there is one thing I can relate to is being sick with your pregnancy. YUCK! Hang in there - a sweet new baby will make it all worth while. HAPPY BIRTHDAY! Barry and I both just had ours and Ella too - she is ONE now!

Dansie Family said...

happy birthday! the 30s aren't too bad. except when people mistake you for being your husband's mom. it has only happened twice. good luck with the last few weeks.

Heidi and Jace said...

Hey There. I asked your mom for your blog. Good luck with your new baby! And being 30. Me too. You'll have to e-mail me to get an invite to view our blog. larkinaz@gmail.com - Heidi Nielson